Type 05
Spark
You get things started.
About the Spark
You often take the first step when people are interested but no one has begun. You may make the first call, suggest an idea, or start before every detail has been decided.
You might reach out to a friend, begin a new habit, suggest an activity, or put forward an idea at work. Taking that first step can make it easier for you to continue and for others to join.
Strengths in everyday life
Taking the first step
You act on an intention instead of leaving it as something you hope to do. A first call or attempt gives you something to build on.
Noticing when people are interested
You may notice that people are keen to try an idea or activity but have not started. Inviting them gives them a chance to decide whether to join.
Giving others a way to join
When you begin, others have something they can join, improve, or respond to. You can also make it easier for others to start.
What can get in the way
People may join in enthusiastically before agreeing on what they are doing. Check that you share the same goal, expectations, and willingness to take risks.
Starting something can be more exciting than continuing it. Before adding another plan, consider the time, habits, or support you need to keep the current one going.
Understanding each other
With a Spark, explain what you want to do and how quickly you are comfortable starting. Appreciate their initiative while being clear about what you have agreed to and what still needs discussion.
If you are a Spark, ask whether people want to join rather than deciding for them. For your own goals, plan a step you can repeat after the initial excitement wears off.
Questions worth asking
- What first step would make it easier to continue?
- Do we want the same outcome, or are we just equally excited?
- What will help me keep going after the initial excitement?